In a recent interview, Aisha Falode who is a host of a Sports programme on AIT had this to say when a journalist asked her how a woman can keep her man:
If you talk to 10 men, 90.9 per cent of them, that is almost a 100 per cent, will tell you that what goes on in the bedroom is much more important than what is in the plate on the table. Talk to them. That is what they go after when they go after girlfriends.
The girlfriends don’t cook for them. It is what they do with these men that take the men to them. Let’s not pretend as women.
Be creative. ‘Daddy, it’s me and you tonight.’ Recreate that old time and they will enjoy it. Even when they are in the process of straying, they remember that 'my wife can give me what I want'. Even if they want to, they are held back because the woman is fantastic, and they are wondering why they are wasting their time with these small, small girls.
Forget about food.
Although it is also important, those people they are going out to see are not cooking for them. That is the truth. Let’s be frank about it. Perhaps, if I was as matured as I am when I got married, I could keep my home. But I wasn’t mature. If I get a second chance today, God help the lady that will come and take my place.She will have to toil for it.
This is the time for women to wake up. Keep your relationship. Keep your man, whatever it takes. What is it that he is going to look for outside? I will give him double at home. This is what men want. We brought them to the programme on how to sustain your marriage, and they told us verbatim. Forget about the food. It is the food in the bedroom that is more important. Maybe in the days of our mothers, you know they were traditionalists, they were not adventurous.
Do you agree? Do you know any other ways you think a woman can keep her man? Please share in the comments section.