Hey guys, Mgbeks here!
Lately Iâ€™ve been pondering on this issue of sex in a relationship and why it is SO important to men. I keep having conversations with guys who insist that if their girls arenâ€™t giving it up then she got to go. They say things like â€˜body no be firewood oâ€™ or â€˜Even if I agreed to not wait with her till marriage, I would have a jump off on the sideâ€™. Iâ€™ve even heard things like â€˜You have to test drive the car before you buy itâ€™ and even worseâ€¦â€™If she isnâ€™t giving it up, she will be NEXTEDâ€™.
I once had a conversation with a guy who had been in a 5 year relationship and when I asked the no sex question, he replied and told me that if his girlfriend had asked him to wait till marriage, they would not have lasted for 5 years.
Once again, Iâ€™m picking on you men because I canâ€™t tell you that Iâ€™ve ever heard a female tell me that if there was no sex in a relationship, a guy would be instantly NEXTED. Honestly, I realize that body no be firewood etc etc but seriously guys, is sex the ultimate thing that makes or breaks a relationship?
Imagine if you met a woman who was everything that you wanted and more, would you really let her go because she wasnâ€™t willing to hit the sheets with you?
What is the huge fuss over a maximum of 1 hour of pleasureâ€¦and please Iâ€™m cutting yâ€™all some slack up in here â€˜cos if we have to keep it 100, it probably wouldnâ€™t even reach one hour. LOL, Iâ€™m just saying thoughâ€¦
I mean, the thing just tire me o. My ladies, are you feeling me on this or am I alone on this one?
My dudes, please feel free to comment o. I welcome all questions, comments and insults. Ha Ha! Iâ€™m just trying to get a general understanding of this right here.
Why is sex so important in a relationship?